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Susanna
(Harbaugh)
Susie married Alexander Wilson "Wils" Conn (1874-1938). He was a farmer, and they lived on part of the old Harbaugh farm, along what today is the lake, though at the time was a small stream.
Iva and Clint are seen at right. Little about the Conns' lives is known, other than a few morsels found in family records. In about 1890, when Susie was 16, she wrote a poem in the autograph book of her sister Letitia. The handwritten poem is seen below.
In August 1926, when Susie's mother celebrated her 94th birthday, Susie and Wils threw her a surprise birthday party at the old homestead. More than 225 relatives and friends showed up. In a long story, the Connellsville Daily Courier said: The affair was in the form of a family reunion and will remembered as a very enjoyable occasion. The family which dates from Casper Harbaugh, who settled in Somerset county in 1732, has spread to many points. Five generations were represented at the reunion.... At noon a basket picnic dinner was served under the shady trees. A panoramic photograph of the picnic is seen below, taken by New York Studio of Connellsville. It was such a successful event that it was decided to hold the reunion again the following year, and officers were elected to carry out the plans.
In 1942, as she neared age 70, Susie is known to have traveled almost monthly to visit her sister, Rosetta (Harbaugh) Miner in Connellsville, PA. Heartache rocked the family in 1945, at the end of World War II, when Earl J. Peters, husband of granddaughter Reba (Firestone), was killed in action in the sinking of the USS Indianapolis. At some point, Susie's homeplace was purchased by the Clairton Angler's Club. The property, along with other adjacent parcels, was flooded with a manmade dam, to form what is now Cranberry Glade Lake.
More sadness struck in early 1954, when daughter Nora died, of causes unknown. In the 1950s, the Stricklers are known to have kept a boarder at their home. The boarder (identity unknown) helped with house chores when he got home from work at night. After Susie married Jesse, they decided to travel to Illinois to visit her sister Letitia Stoner and niece Agnes Wood. Susie's son and daughter in law, Lester and Cornelia Conn, went along as "chaperones." A series of remarkable photographs shows the Stricklers, Conns and Woods at a bus stop, presumably in Illinois. It was probably the last time Susie saw her beloved sister.
Susie enjoyed attending the Harbaugh Reunions, which had become an annual tradition and continued through the rest of her lifetime. She must have taken great pride when distant cousins Cora Bell (Harbaugh) Cooprider and son J.L. Cooprider, of Evansville, IN, authored a book called Harbaugh History. The 1947 volume contained entries on Susie's parents and all of her sisters, brothers and their children. Susie received the award for "Largest Family Present" in 1954, and Jesse won the award for "Oldest Man Present" the same year. In an August 1954 letter to sister Letitia, Susie wrote:
One July in about 1954, from Perryopolis, Susie wrote to sister Letitia, saying: "Our garden is real good. We had peas, beets, new beans and plenty of new cabbage to use." She also reported on visits from her stepson Paul Strickler from Washington, DC, as well as from niece Agnes Wood from Oblong, IL and nephew David Younkin from Connellsville. She also said her daughters "Gertrude and Iva has not bin here for some time. They don't get home often as they both work." An October 1955 letter from Susie to her sister Letitia contained this update on family visits: Had a letter from Leona [Wilkerson] a short time ago and Ira Lokery [Laughery] and his wife was here several weeks ago ... and yesterday Clint and his wife and family was here for dinner. Iva still lives at Kingwood and Gertrude still lives at Confluence and Lester still at bible school and Jess still at McKeesport... One of Nora's boys and his little girls was here the other Sunday to see us. Well we was glad to see them come. Tucked inside Susie's 1955 letter was a note from her husband, saying: Mam has not been good. She has been going down for more than a year. She only weighs 124 lbs. and she is getting weeker all the time. I slipped this in without her knowing it. Unable to see as she aged, Susie left letter-writing to her husband. In a January 1956 letter to Letitia Stoner, Jess wrote: Mam is some stronger but cannot see good enough to write so I am writing for her.... Mam says to tell you we are all getting old and can't do mutch any more... We sure are having winter this time. It has been cold and snow ever since Thanksgiving. The roads are icy and we don't go very mutch. Tell [your children] I didn't get any deer this year but I sure got my share of ring necks.
Daughter Gertrude must have moved in as Susie neared death. In the summer of 1957, Susie was visited by nephew and niece, Harry and Amanda (Burkett) Miner. Several days later, on Aug. 5, 1957, Amanda wrote a letter about their visit to Susie's niece, Agnes (Stoner) Wood in Oblong, IL:
We was to see Aunt Susan Saturday afternoon. I was in the room where she lays
but she is about the same. You ask if she knows things by times (no) but when
people go in and talk she gets so worked up. She just has Gertrude help her up
and down all night. They all should consider Gertrude's side of it and walk in
and not be talking till they go out of the room... Aunt Susan could last a year
yet or could go at anytime. She don't eat enough to keep a bird alive. Susie passed away just 10 days after the letter was written, on Aug. 15, 1957. She was buried with Wils at Jersey Church Cemetery. Jesse's fate is unknown. Copyright © 2000-2005, 2008 Mark A. Miner |