Nancy
(Minor) Farabee
(1848-1918)
Nancy
(Minor) Farabee was born in 1848 on the family farm at
Hexebarger near Kingwood, Somerset County, PA, the daughter of Henry
and Polly (Younkin) Minerd. She is believed to have been named after her
mother's sister, Nancy (Younkin) Sanner (1829-1880).
As a girl, Nancy migrated with her parents from Kingwood to near Beeler Station, Marshall County, WV and later moved again just over the state line into Greene and Washington Counties, PA.
Nancy was a wisp of a woman who suffered from asthma. In 1862, at the age of 14, she married Spencer Farabee (1842-1917), the son of David and Mary (Friend) Farabee.
The
Farabees had eight children: Ida
Ellen Taylor, Anna Elizabeth Burke,
James W. Farabee, Flora Belle
Miller, Henry "Wiley" Farabee, Clinton
Theodore Farabee, Cleveland Farabee
and
Oliver Jasper Farabee.
Spencer was a farmer and basket weaver. In 1870, a few years after they were first married, they resided in the Sand Hill District of Marshall County, WV.
Later, they lived near Hundred, Wetzel County, WV, and circa 1873 in West Finley, Washington County, PA. They moved again to New Freeport and Sparta, Greene County, PA, before relocating for good to near Waynesburg, Greene County in 1892. Spencer, Nancy and three of their sons purchased adjacent properties and built frame homes in the same block, a major step up from the log houses they had lived in previously. Nancy's new home is seen below left, and she herself is seen at right, on her porch.
In
1866, her brother Ephraim Miner came to visit her in Greene
County, as noted in his diary, following his
discharge from the Army in the Civil War. Ephraim is known to have
visited again as an older man -- and, upon leaving, turned down her offer for a
cup of coffee despite it being a cold day, preferring instead a cup of hot
water.
Nancy's brother Eli Minor occasionally would ride up in his small horse cart from Oak Forest, south of Waynesburg, for a visit, or to drop off his young son Albert "Ross" Minor, whom Nancy or her son Clint would babysit for the day.
As a young girl, Nancy was taught nursery rhymes or Mother Goose sayings, and recited one of them later in life to a young grandson. The words were pronounced as --
See-bee
quah-bee,
English Mary,
Singlum, sanglum, buck
Younkin cousin and genealogist Linda Trimpey Marker has provided this different version as recited by her father in law of Somerset County:
Ornery,
orrey, ickery, a,
Fillacy, fallacy, nicholas, j
Quebily, quabily, Irish, may
Stringam, strnagum, buck!
Additional research done by one of Nancy's descendants, and found on the website MamaLisa.com, reveals that the oldest version of the saying dates to 1825, and was published in a book called Mother Goose's Quarto. The rhyme also is claimed to be a gypsy saying.
Spencer and Nancy in
front. Standing, L-R: Cleve, Wiley, Oliver, Clinton, James
Heartache rocked Spencer and Nancy repeatedly over the years. In 1886, their daughter Anna died at the age of 19. In 1906, their married daughter Flora Belle died in childbirth. In 1913, their daughter in law Grace (Cumley) Farabee died of tuberculosis. And in 1915, their son James was mangled and killed in a freak railroad accident.
The worst heartache, however, began one day in 1917 when Spencer went out to his barn. When he didn't return after a time, Nancy went to look for him. To her shock, she found his lifeless body in the barn, where he had died suddenly.
The following
winter, in
1918, while reaching into a woodbox to get wood for her stove, Nancy got a
splinter in her hand that soon became infected. She also was suffering
from pneumonia at the time, and her health declined rapidly. She died on Feb.
8, 1918.
Nancy and Spencer are buried at the Oakmont Cemetery near Waynesburg. Their grave marker is seen at right, as photographed in the winter of 1989.
In 1935, when widespread research was being done by Nancy's Younkin cousins coast to coast, to determine how everyone fit into the massive clan, and to organize a national home-coming reunion, Nancy was mentioned in a letter authored by Charles Arthur Younkin. Click to see this letter, dated Feb. 19, 1935. Charles wrote: "I have learned the whereabouts of several of the Farabees also Burches and Bedillions but as yet have not come into contact in person but hope to do so in the near future." It's unknown if Charles was successful in meeting or interviewing any of Nancy's children or grandchildren as future letters and records as late as 1940 are silent on the matter.
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